How can I feel more competent as a new dad? I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent? Expert Answers Armin Brott, parenting expert First of all, let's start with what not to do: When your daughter gets fussy, don't … [Read more...] about How can I be competent as a dad?
Archives for June 2006
Dads: Postpartum blues
Like women, many men too are susceptible to a dip in their mood following childbirth. According to a study, 62 percent of fathers felt depressed at some time during the first four months of the birth of their baby. While there are a number of responsible factors, what most men require at this time is support and encouragement to share their concerns. Click here to learn more … [Read more...] about Dads: Postpartum blues
Tips for labor coaches
For most women, labor is a long drawn out process that last several hours even before going to the hospital. It falls upon you to be there to reassure her and make her comfortable in every possible way. Hard as it may be to watch your mate in pain, the birth of their child will make up for it. Click here for tips on being the "dream" labor coach for your partner. … [Read more...] about Tips for labor coaches
Seven fears of expectant fathers
The minute you learn that your partner is pregnant you will be expected to take part in the pregnancy. All the attention will be on the mom, and very few people will ask you how you’re adjusting to the changes in your life. Those who comment will mostly echo the same idea: You should be excited to be a new dad. Very few people, however, will mention the anxiety, and even fear, … [Read more...] about Seven fears of expectant fathers
Paternity leave checklist
A U.S. federal law has provisions for up to 12 weeks of unpaid time off, to care for an immediate family member such as a newborn or newly adopted child. Even if that does not apply to you, there are other options for you to manage your paternity leave. Click here for a checklist on planning paternity leave. … [Read more...] about Paternity leave checklist