Both my wife and I are huge sports fans. So it goes without saying that we're at the very least going to see if our daughter is interested in sports as she grows older. If she doesn't like them, oh well. But I've always looked forward to a time when I could be her basketball or softball coach, and create that father and daughter bond.But as a fairly un-athletic … [Read more...] about Winning and Losing: Preparing for the day your child can beat you in sports
Archives for February 2015
Shoveling and other chores: How young is too young?
In the winter, every approaching snowstorm brings one question to my mind. Just how long until my daughter is ready to help me with the snowblowing and shoveling - not to mention all the other chores around the house? Granted, given that she's just a month old, I know I'm getting ahead of myself in terms of fatherhood. Right now, the only chore she can handle is not … [Read more...] about Shoveling and other chores: How young is too young?
Three ways to discipline someone else’s kid
When your child hits another kid at the playground or steals a sibling's favorite toy, a father's role is simple – lower the boom. The punishment can be whatever your family prefers – time-out, grounding, losing allowance, cancelling screen time, or any other consequence – but it should be swift and fair.But how do you react when the offending felon … [Read more...] about Three ways to discipline someone else’s kid
How to be a “Good” Wife
I couldn't be the father that I am if not for my amazing wife. She has done one key thing that has really enabled me to be an empowered and engaged dad. Unfortunately, supporting me to father in the ways that she has is not instinctual. She's had to go against her deeply wired motherly impulses and I can't thank her enough for it. This week's video outlines the ONE thing … [Read more...] about How to be a “Good” Wife
Five ways to create new traditions for your family
American culture is packed with traditions. Some folks cook ham for Easter dinner, while other sing certain Christmas carols or bang pots and pans on New Year's Eve.But these habits don't work for everyone. Differences in religion, region, age or simple preference can leave some fathers feeling left out. Fortunately, families are the perfect breeding ground for … [Read more...] about Five ways to create new traditions for your family