Divorced Dads

Q: I'm a single dad and am just now starting to date again. I'm worried about how this will impact my kids and I'd like to know whether there are any guidelines. Are there rules about how long I should wait before introducing someone to my children? It’s been so long since I’ve dated anyone, what should or shouldn’t I tell the person I’m dating about my situation? A: Whether … [Read more...] about Single Dads and Dating

Q: My kids are having a terrible time coping with my divorce. As their father, I am trying to be there for them as much as I can. But nothing I say or do seems to help. What should I do? A: Sometimes, despite all your efforts, your children will need more help than you're capable of providing. This doesn't mean that you're a bad parent, just that you know your limitations. … [Read more...] about How to Help Kids Cope With Divorce

Q: My wife and I will soon be divorced, and we both want to spend a lot of time with our children. We're trying to work out a custody agreement that both of us think is fair. A couple we know that got divorced are co-parenting their children. But other people have told us that sharing custody causes problems for everyone. Who's right? A: The best way to maintain a strong … [Read more...] about Co-parenting and Sharing Child Custody

Q: My ex and I are getting a divorce. We get along pretty well and we don't want to spend a bunch of money that we could otherwise use to raise our children haggling about child support in court. Can we come up with our own agreement, rather than getting attorneys and a judge involved? A: If you and your ex are on pretty civil terms, in most states you can write your own … [Read more...] about Child Support Plan for Single Fathers

Q: I'm a single father and I'm finding it harder and harder to keep my kids in line. When I was married, their mother and I could back each other up. But now that I'm alone, I don't seem to have the energy to take a stand like I know I should as their parent. What can I do to regain control? A: At one time or another, all parents struggle with … [Read more...] about Single Parents: Kids and Discipline