Long sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, and a spouse
who now has little time left for you anymore. Add to that an overwhelming sense of responsibility
that, at best, leaves you wondering about a largely uncertain future. Sometimes you wonder whether
this is all that being a father is about.
But then, you remember all those little
ways in which the birth of your baby has altered your life forever and you know it’s worth it… a
hundred times over!
Here are just few of those many things that make fatherhood
such a great experience. You can add to this list by sharing your own experiences. (To do so, click
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- Looking into those beautiful eyes and hearing your baby say, “I
love you Dad.” (And your child hasn’t even begun talking yet.) - Coming home to your baby
after a particularly trying day at work, and realizing that you have never felt better in your
life - Discovering the child in you all over again, as you get down on your knees to play
with your baby - Taking endless pictures of your baby, and still feeling that you just
cannot have enough of them - Taking your baby out for a walk and being aware of all the
appreciative glances you are getting - Learning a whole new language as you communicate
with your baby
When that busy baby of yours takes the time to stop and lay his/her head on you- even when it is just to cuddle for a minute before venturing off into their little world again!
When your smile is enough to soothe their upset.
Those first belly laughs.
Those sleepy-eyed looks and touches to make sure you are still there after they fall asleep in your arms.
These moments are priceless.
When my 3-year old boy says, “Daddy, I love you so much.” I don’t know if he knows what it means, but it sure is cute.